My son is intelligent I know. But giving him instruction as part of his discipline seems to fell in deaf ears. Usually at the minimum I give five to ten instructions plus threats sometimes to make him follow.
Sometimes out of my anger I boxed him which made me feel sorry because I had already attended seminars against corporal punishment. But what can I do? Sometimes he teased his two younger sisters until they cried so, I applied physical force to make him stop.
Advices have short term effect on him. Usually he ignore them.
Few days ago I boxed him again when I heard him cursing his mother. My heart is aching sometimes when I think I have a difficult son to guide.
But sometimes I rationalize also that there is still hope that my son would change his attitude from bad to good. Then I also contemplate that this is is the risk of parenting. I chose this vocation so I must prepare for the worst.
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